Hi guys, so I want to finish the last post about romantic pickup lines and how to tell if a girl is interested in you. And more than this, how to approach a woman and talk to women generally so that they find you interesting. This is the biggest key. If you don’t know how to approach women or talk to women you’re not going to get anywhere. Once we’re interested in you and we’ve started dating, you can make some small mistakes and we’ll forgive that. But at the beginning, there is no grace for mistakes. So you have to ace this first approach.

If you use bad pick up lines or cheesy pick up lines you’re already dead and you don’t have a chance. So how do you do it. Okay guys, I know you’re hungry for this information so I’m going to share it with you. Now remember, any and I mean any attractive woman who walks into a club or even a roomful of guys has the pick of the litter. But don’t despair, she won’t always or even often go for the best looking guy or even the richest guy. Unless she’s shallow in which case I hope that’s not the kind of girl you want to date.

So you have a chance but you’ve got to use nice romantic pickup lines or sweet pickup lines if you’re going to use pickup lines at all. In fact, good pickup lines and pickup lines in general should not be your major concern.

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Anyway, my advice here will give you a great start nonetheless. The most important thing women look for in men beyond romantic pickup lines is confidence. You have to come across as confident. And as they say you can fake it ’till you make it. What I would do and what I told my brother to build his confidence was to have a script prepared. Nothing detailed, just some bullet points on things he could say. Have some romantic pickup lines ready, and above all avoid stupid pick up lines.

Another way to give you some confidence and help you seem more confident is to spend just a little bit of time on your appearance. If you look good and use some sweet pickup lines or romantic pickup lines you’ll have great success. Now looking good to us is more about clean clothes and a nice combination of shirt and pants and also about being well groomed. Now listen, we don’t want to be competing with guys in the looking pretty department. A slightly scruffy or rugged look is better than being too well groomed with manicures and that.

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We don’t want to think we’re dating a girl. Even if you have great romantic pickup lines we still want to feel like you’re the guy and we’re the girl. Now get out there and have some fun with this. If you look good, are clean and confident, use romantic pickup lines and smile you’ll have a lot of success. Trust me.

But honestly, great pickup lines treat us as if we’re still human not some sort of Martian. So seriously, think about that before you say something really corny like “Are you’re parents from Iraq?” and after I roll my eyes “Because you’re the bomb.” That’s not even funny, not with the war and people getting hurt. So don’t try and be funny and like all improv. Save that for the comedy club. Seriously.

By the way, that was one of the cheesy pick up lines my brother tried on a girl before he got serious about wanting a girlfriend. It didn’t work for him. She turned away and started to talk to her girlfriends and giggling about him. That was the last time he was such an idiot. That’s when I did an intervention and got him to really understand how guys pickup lines generally suck, and that romantic pickup lines are sweet pickup lines are much better.

But before I actually talk about real pickup lines and the things to say to women, I want to talk about the package first. You know, girls also care what a guy looks like. Now you don’t have to be the biggest heart throb like Jared Leto or something like that, but you have to show us that you care about what you look like.

So generally, we don’t care if you work in construction or the oilfields so long as you take care of yourself. And this means don’t come out to the bar and use guys pickup lines on us if you’re still in your grungy work clothes. This is not going to work. We don’t want to smell you unless we can smell a nice cologne. We don’t want to see your stained pants and caked with mud work boots. And we definitely don’t want to see black gunk under your fingernails. Even if you had the best romantic pickup lines in the world, your first impression is very important.

So don’t use guys pickup lines on us if you haven’t showered and cleaned up. That’s like a slap in the face. And don’t forget to be happy, because we can sniff insincerity a mile off. If you’re not happy find some happiness first before using romantic pickup lines for us. If you seem happy and like you’re enjoying what you’re doing, then we’ll find you interesting and we’ll forgive you guys pickup lines that are cheesy and stupid.

It didn’t work for my brother. In fact, I got sick and tired of him complaining to me after he’d come back from the bar and just say, Chris, girls are just not into me. And I’d ask him what he said to them. He would give me this goofy grin and say stupid stuff. Like I remember the one time he told me he thought this one girl was really cute and he wanted to go and talk to her. So what he said is something like this. “Do you have any band aids”, he’d ask the girl and after she’d say something like “No” and be rolling her eyes my brother would say, “that’s too bad because I skinned my knees falling for you.”

How lame is that. If you don’t think it’s lame, then you really need to start understanding what girls are really looking for in guys. Guys, seriously, I’m tired of all the bad pick up lines that you use on us girls, and my girl friends are tired of it too. You need to use sweet pickup lines and romantic pickup lines that really work. Don’t fall for all the hype.

What girls want is a guy who really understands them. And one of the best ways to do that, is by listening. You’ve got 2 ears and one mouth, so it’s always best to use your ears twice as much as you use your mouth. And be yourself too. You’ll impress a girl more by being yourself than trying to come off like some macho dude. That just won’t work.

Next time, I’m going to talk more about romantic pickup lines that’ll work for you. But remember that these are just guidelines, you need to make them work for you. Put your own spin on them.